Throughout the years I have learned three major things;
1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not. Pay attention. True intentions take you towards right action. Actions speak louder than words. And wrong people use words to cover up truth with lies.
2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control. That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on, It’s as simple as that.
3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words).
AT THE END OF THE DAY IT’S NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE OR EVEN WHAT YOU’VE ACCOMPLISHED. IT’S ABOUT WHO YOU’VE LIFTED UP, WHO YOU’VE MADE BETTER. IT’S ABOUT WHAT YOU’VE GIVEN BACK.
People trust me not because I am good or bad. I maybe way smaller person than what you are. I am TRUSTWORTHY because I buy my good & bad both equally with complete TRUTH. If I am a faulty dickhead at some point; it’s only me who will spread that first before any asshole even thinks about playing with my shit.
I never hide shit about me. Yes my heart behaves like a huge sensible 76 kilo kid. But my head is the JUGGERNAUT which keeps me driving towards a better tomorrow everyday.
That’s the reason my words go tough/cut-throat sometimes; TRUTH first, LOGIC next & then I reach to catch up with your or my emotions. It should be like that, emotional investments must be concrete & tested thoroughly.
No, LOVE has nothing to do with finances or charisma of the other side. But, you already know what’s your comfort zone/future goals & who can be worth it to share that same way!!
Just like you can’t use that same smartphone in your hand for more than 2-3 years, you want to upgrade it even if you are using it. Life is just like that. It needs a upgrade time to time. See your parents, how many times you changed your home/TV/location/furniture/whatever. Life is exactly like that. It needs upgrades not just monetarily, it needs upgrades in every aspect. You need your emotional growth & qualifications/skills/work too need the same.
If you aren’t seeing the same in your partner, don’t let him/her be your LIFE PARTNER. Someday you will surely lose your attraction/passion/mojo towards that person if they are not driven towards a better life. LOVE is a big word. Don’t misuse it, use it when you find your forever or else go happy fuck around for a while. Having tons of sex with multiple partners is OK if your moral allows you & you get that much attention. Misusing that word LOVE to gain little passion is not OK, it will tear you down slowly.
Ask yourself how long did you let that LOVE cook inside you, ask yourself what’s gonna be the result when time tests you with good or bad situations!! BE TRUE to yourself first. Time heals all when intentions are true in head/heart & your mouth speaks the same.