Tru2Day1008

Be honest with people about who you are, what you want and how you expect to be treated.

Standards only scare off people not meant for you.

True me.. Tap-905..

Your life will pass one way or another.
The events that will unfold are the events that will unfold.
You will meet amazing people who you are meant to.
You will find the opportunities you need.
You will desire what you want.
The choice is not what you experience, but how.
How is everything.
How is golden.
How closes doors and it opens them.
How creates something out of nothing.

It is not the years we live, but HOW we live them.
It is not who we cross paths with, but how we love them & appreciate them.
It is not what we are given or not, but how we take what’s in front of us and turn it into all we ever needed it to be.
It is how we experience life, day in and day out, in the quietest moments and biggest ways.
The HOW is the way.

Tap OUT..🤗

True me.. Tap-902..

8 Rules for a HAPPY HAPPENING LIFE:

1. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
2. What others think of you is none of your business.
3. Time heals almost everything, give it time.
4. Don’t compare your life to others and don’t judge them. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
5. Stop thinking too much, it’s alright not to know the answers. Answers will come to you when you least expect it.
6. No one is in charge of your happiness, except you.
7. Smile. You don’t own all the problems in the world.
8. Understand the difference between WANT & NEED. Follow what you feel.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-861..

It’s so easy to get caught up in wanting success, wealth, and fame.
If that’s the kind of recognition you seek in life, it won’t last because it’s not authentic.
We are here to be of service, to be of value, and to help others in our own unique ways.
Success doesn’t define who we are.
But it’s a reminder of what we can achieve.

Think about what matters to you and make sure you are doing things for the right reasons and not to please your ego.
Make sure your intentions are healthy for you.

Strive not to be a SUCCESS,
but rather to be of VALUE. (Not my words).

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Do i believe 80% crash coming? Answer is: NO. Not for me. But the markets which are gonna crash soon or sooner are commodities, real estate & mortgage/banking. If your investments are in Automobile, pharma & retail sector, you can just chill because these industries have already seen enough downfall recently, now the only way is up.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-859..

People never understand “what you want to do” is always connected to “what you need to do”.

Suppose i want to be an engineer, i need to study engineering.
Suppose i want to a writer/musician/athlete, i need to learn & practice writing/music/sports.
Suppose i want to get fit, i need to workout.

What you want to do doesn’t make any sense till you aren’t following what you need to do first.
This is the major reason most people stay unhappy & blame others for their failures.
This one tiny mindset change can drastically evolve your life in a year.

NEEDS FIRST, WANTS NEXT.

(This movie trailer got nothing to do with the post above. My first real full-time job was software developer before i switched to data analytics field. I know where we are heading with time, our world isn’t going bad as this trailer shows. But the way technology is advancing, who knows what’s coming after hundred years!! Anyways, there are no boundaries for imagination.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-850

I feel blessed that I’ve pretty much always known what I wanted to do with my life.
But I know plenty of people who are still figuring out what that means to them.
As long as you stay consistent and keep following your dreams even if they feel underdeveloped, you will find that place within yourself.

Are you doing what you’ve always wanted to do?
If you’re not, there’s no time like the present.
Sometimes a thought of “Toxic positivity” may make you think “Let’s stay stuck to my current reality”.
But ask yourself whether that’s helping you evolve!
Don’t go with what others tell you.
Always accept suggestions, but take your own decisions.
One step at a time.
Start this moment.
Follow what you feel.
If things were easy to find, they wouldn’t be worth finding. (Not my words)

Tap OUT..💪

True me.. Tap-828..

Your life is your own.
I want you to read that sentence until it sinks all the way down inside your gut and meets every last impulse that tells you to put your intuition on pause,
to place yourself second,
to squeeze and bend and break into the molds of what everyone else wants you to be.

Your life is your own.
I want it to pass through your head so many times it slowly clears out the debris of your fear.
I want you to meditate on it until you realize that you are not too strange,
you just have the courage to be your true self,
you are not too different,
you just have the courage to follow your own heart,
you are not unworthy,
you are just honest about the very natural human experience of feeling unworthiness.

Every person alive wishes to embody these very same forms of freedom.
They are not judging you,
they are expressing the parts of themselves they’ve judged into silence.

Your life is your own, and it always will be.
You must find the courage to claim it, or it will pass by you untouched, a glimmering, lost potential of all that could have been. (Not my words).

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-826..

Few ways you can express how you feel towards someone;

1. I love you.
2. I need you.
3. I want you.
4. I want to be with you.
5. I don’t want to be without you.
6. I can’t live without you.
7. I miss you.

NEED, needs can be met somewhere else & being needy means being weak as well.
LOVE, this word is highly misused by people & especially someone like me needs a year to trust after a year of healing.
WANT is my favourite & number-3 is my pick out of all these 7.
WANT is that animalistic desire inside.
Which means i know i have few suitors/options, but who cares because it’s you and just you that i WANT for myself.
In case you love someone, remind them constantly & consistently that YOU WANT THEM.

Last time someone said “I WANT YOU” to me was on my birthday.
I haven’t replied that till now.
Never rushed towards anyone.
Never allowed anyone to rush towards me either.
The simple reason is;
“If someone is investing their time & energy on me, that person deserves a whole TAP”.
I am that kind of a person who hides nothing.
My only secrets are my bank account/credit card pin or my email/social media account passwords.
And right now, i am still in that phase of healing i mentioned above.

Whenever i say “LIONESS” in my posts, it’s my appreciation to that person who understands where i am coming from & why.
Appreciated for picking/dropping me at airport.
Appreciated for taking me out to my favourite brunch.
Appreciated for buying me a pair of white vans kicks after watching squid games.
Appreciated for helping me with carwash.
Appreciated for typing my thesis.
Very few people come with a clean heart & no stupid outlandish expectations.
So LIONESS, Like your favourite alphabet is T, my favourite word is “APPRECIATION”.
Rest all are a LEO-LEO thing i guess.😜
Every relationship of your life is a major investment of time & energy.
Take your sweet time, that says all about who’s who.

Tap OUT..🤗

Tru2Day899

Neglect is abusive.
Ignoring a person and not caring about who they are,
what they want,
what they need,
is like telling them, they are not important, over and over again.
Some narcissistic toxic people use NEGLECT to make you feel insignificant and unworthy.

– Maria Consiglio.

Tru2Day889

My next relationship will be my last.
So I’m not looking,
I’m not worried,
And I’m not rushing.

I want this love to find me,
learn me,
want me,
need me,
spoil me with attention,
and love me in slow motion.
I am busy building something big & we have forever to go.