Be disciplined about what you respond and react to. Most people are inconsistent, that’s their comfort zone. Not everyone or everything deserves your time, energy and attention. Stay in your light. Vibe with your tribe.
I like meeting new people, it’s fun but i hardly take them seriously. Let’s say I like meeting new people, but i don’t like making new friends. Most people are inconsistent+liars which bums my mood, that’s just cheap in my eyes and i struggle to trust such morons. I already have little over a dozen amazing friends who are my friends since 14th century or past life. That’s the reason I never miss attention or affection. Remember: The only proof your people are real with you is whether they are consistent with their approach towards you. Rest others are there just for nothing – mental drain to be honest.
(Not a secret, i shoot my shots when she’s a peng ting. That’s the best part about being single.😜 There’s a party at Frank’s place next week. Shooting this song at my bestie DEMI, Amanda & Karo’s🍑.)
Next few lines are meant for the one who calls me SONNENPRINZ out of fun & adore. Sonnenprinz means SUN PRINCE in German. Meeting someone 7th time in 6 years, actually 4th time since May-2021. She drives 5 hours to drop me at airport & airport is just 30km away from my house.😂 I must agree that 45-minute drive from my house to airport is pure banter. I still don’t know what i am bringing to the table, but the vibe is 🔥🔥🔥🔥. I love it when a girl questions or corrects my knowledge on engineering & business. Basically i love it when someone proves me wrong. Conversations are healing & communication is a sexy thing.
You deserve the affection that you kept trying to pour into others. You deserve the same motivation that you tried to inspire in others. You deserve the high of happy, without the low of sadness. You deserve the joy of being spoiled, without the catch of having to repay. You deserve the relaxation of trust, without the paranoia of betrayal. You deserve to be confident, without the reminder to be humble. You deserve to look at your reflection with eyes of awe, not judgment. You deserve to be held forever, not for a night. You deserve to be first, second, and third. You deserve to have everything you want. You deserve this power. It is who you are and who you will always be. BE YOU FOR THE SAKE OF YOURSELF. VIBE WITH YOUR TRIBE.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. 20 rules for young men, i guess it’s a must watch for everyone irrespective of gender.)
There are people who notice you only when you shine, or when you fall into the darkness. Not the average you. Not the mediocre you. But the great you, or the not-so-great you. The people who are worthiest of your care are not those who only notice you at your best and worst but those who are with you at all times. They don’t need an excuse to love you. They don’t need an excuse to talk to you, or to ask you how you’re doing!! They don’t need an excuse to share their happiness with you. They don’t need an explanation. They give you one without you asking for it. They assume the good in you before the bad.
So keep eyes open just so you don’t miss those people. Such equations take long long time & trust to develop. Once you find them, never let them go because those are not just friends but family members. They’re life companions. They are the people who will tell you when you are wrong simply because they’ve allowed themselves to tie their well-being to yours. (Not my words). Vibe with people who are good for you.
The universe will keep handing you the same lessons, same failures, the same relationships, the same type of love and the same type of pain until you realise that the common denominator is you.
Until you are finally tired of your own patterns. Until you finally love yourself enough to raise your standards and believe you are worthy of holding them.
You see the thing is, until you learn to love yourself more, you will continue to accept the love that mirrors how you truly feel about yourself. The answer to everything you desire is within you.
Desires must help you become a better you. Now relax. You’ll end up where you’re supposed to be. Choose consistent truthful people to vibe & shine. Be picky. You glow differently when you have good people with good intentions in your life. (Not my words).
CHOOSE RIGHT COMPANY. Let’s vibe. Text me a paragraph. Call me & start talking without saying “HELLO”. Disconnect the call without saying “BYE” because you gonna ring me again in couple of hours either ways. Tell me after language classes why you got so angry at your sibling this morning. Tell me why you have a scar shaped like an island on the left side of your shoulder. Explain the story behind that tattoo while swimming. Let’s talk about why we both love Levi’s more than any other denim brand. Sing a rap song with wrong lyrics. Send me your experience about the time you spent at your gran’s house last summer. Call me when I’m half asleep and tell me why you believe in God or Ghost. Tell me about the last time you saw yourself cry in mirror. Tell me why you hate green vegetables when we are drenched in rain at farmer’s market. You are allowed to go on for hours about things that may not seem important. But I promise that I’ll be hanging on to every word you say.
Tell me everything that makes you comfortable or uncomfortable. There’s nothing more sexy than an open wild conversation. Such people bring joy to our little world without feeling obligated. You are celebrated in my books. (Some brownie points to Laura, Chrissi & my bestie DEMI. Daddy TAP sends some good vibes via left balcony.)😜😘
While choosing people, I always make sure to stay away from those who SMALL TALK. And nobody wants someone who just talks about breakfast & weather.
Everytime I lower my frequency to meet someone on their level, I end up paying for it. That’s a lesson I really don’t need to learn anymore. Rise up to meet me.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. After US,UK, INDIA, CANADA, FRANCE, NETHERLANDS & GERMANY, highest number of my blog visitors are from South Africa. I don’t know much about the fuck is happening. All i can say from a distance; STAY SAFE & RIOT/LOOT IS NOT THE RIGHT WAY FOR ANY KIND OF ISSUE.)