Be strong, be kind, be free. Do things that make you proud of yourself. Surround yourself with people who bring out your best qualities. And distance yourself from the people who do the opposite. Hangout with people who are ready to exchange knowledge with enough understanding about what they are saying & why. For example; Don’t just follow someone’s words because they said “Investing in stock market/real estate/crypto will make you money/rich”. 95% of these people don’t even know how to multiply 12*13 without a calculator. Do you really think such dumbfucks can advice anyone on finance? Forget finance, if someone is saying something without knowing enough about it, that person is a complete fake nut. Stay away from such morons. Fun story: Most people who invest in bitcoin think it’s more like a virtual currency, but hardly few know it was designed as a medium of transaction. It’s more like Western Union Money Transfer.
Be true, true to yourself and true to your morals. Stand up for yourself. Don’t let people take advantage of your kindness and soft heart. Don’t take shit from anyone, and don’t put yourself down. Believe in yourself and believe in your journey. Be good to yourself. Be unapologetically you. Embrace your imperfections. Accept the fact that when you grow, sometimes you lose people and that’s okay. Celebrate your every success and learn from failure. Learn to accept that, first you have to learn a lot about anything & everything before jumping in. And most importantly, never ever let anything stand in the way of the person you are becoming. BE A TRUE YOU. (Not my words).
Be the person who cares. Be the person who makes the effort. Be the person who loves without hesitation. Be the person who bares it all. Be the person who never shies away from the depth of their feeling, or the intensity of their hope. Be the person who believes in the softness of the world, in the goodness of other people, in the beauty of being open and untethered and trusting. Be the person who takes the chance. Be the person who refuses to hide. Be the person who makes people feel seen. Be the person who shows up.
Trust me when I say – be the person who cares. Because the world doesn’t need any more carelessness, any more disregard; because there is nothing stronger than someone who continues to stay soft in a world that hasn’t always been kind to them.
It’s okay if life scares you right now and you don’t really know what to do next. It’s okay if everything seems to be hurting and all you feel is anxious and worried. And it’s okay if you are hopeless about everything. It’s okay. It’s okay. It’s okay. All these feelings have value and you don’t have to pretend like they don’t hurt you. Our greatest strength lies in our ability to acknowledge our pain, things that hurt us. Remember everything that you are going through is temporary, none of them are here to stay. But when they leave, they will leave you as a person stronger than ever before.
So let yourself feel all that you need to feel. Do whatever you feel necessary for you to heal yourself. It’s okay if it takes time. It’s okay if none of it makes sense right now. BE STRONG & COURAGEOUS.
PEOPLE CRY, NOT BECAUSE THEY’RE WEAK. IT’S BECAUSE THEY’VE BEEN STRONG FOR TOO LONG.
– JOHNNY DEPP.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. Last time i cried, someone was asking me about GoDaddy hosting renewal payment. People fake a lot of shit. Now the good part, my bestie DEMI took me on a drive that night 2AM. I barely trust her driving, but pushing a brand new Alfa Romeo Giulia Quadrifoglio to it’s top speed limit was also important till we crossed our country border.)
If you’re the person who is always there for others, Know that your heart is rare. Know that you give people hope. Know that you make people feel wanted. Know that you make people feel seen. Know that you make people feel like they have a purpose.
However, also remind yourself that you are not invincible. Your heart needs rest. You need rest. Remind yourself, That you do not need to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders. That you may not be able to save everyone. That you may not be able to heal every hurt. That you deserve to take all of the energy you put out into the world and invest it back into yourself from time to time. That you are worthy of the love you keep giving to everyone else. That you don’t always have to be strong. That you don’t always have to be the fixer. You can be human. You can ask for help. Remind yourself that you can take a break & you can take a step back to nourish the softness inside of you.
Dead people receive more flowers than living ones, because regret is stronger than gratitude.
– Anne Frank.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Few days back i saw Canada experiencing 50°c weather which boiled a billion shellfish alive near shore & now 120 people died in Western Europe flood, all caused by CLIMATE CHANGE. This kind of unexpected heavy rainfall is possible due to mixture of the hot air escaping our environment & cold humid air up there. The sad part is; some dumbfucks & a group of politicians will still not understand this issue. My heart goes out to those who lost their loved ones & who are still in search of their families in such situations. PEACE.)
If you live with a belief that “LIFE SHOULD ALWAYS BE SMOOTH SAILING”, first you gotta work for it. Then when you meet failures, never get caught up in the thought that “things will never get better”.
Rarely is life a smooth sail. It has ups and downs and part of living is experiencing setbacks, negative emotions and making mistakes, what dictates the kind of person you become. However, it’s not the problems you face, but how you deal with them and learn from them. When it seems like all hope is lost, you’ve got to remember that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Today may be the worst day of your life, but tomorrow could be the best. You’ve just got to get there. The biggest lesson of life is; keep working on yourself.
Business is not a game of money for me, i started with a purpose & i am loving the journey. Most people struggle to figure out priorities which results in a poor choice of living. There is no such mantra/shortcut to success. START SLOW & FINISH STRONG. Have little expectations from others & huge faith in yourself.
While building business my standard is customer’s preference, not the competitor’s product. Even while a pandemic is raving our world, I was lucky enough to grow throughout this year 2020 little stronger stable every single day. 2021 and it’s a long ride, i don’t have enemies but i have competitors. That’s all i can say about the reason “why i usually get bored of random people time after time & my contact block list keeps on increasing”. I have a small group of friends who keep pushing me to reach my higher self. When i say “my people”, i mean my people who are smart, caring, driven, funny & i swear i am sold. Life is fun, let it be.