More than anything, the world needs you to show up strong and courageous. People may not know it, They may not see it, They may not understand it, But deep within you, you have to see it and you have to recognize it.
You may not just see this at present moment, but you see what could be, and that’s a gift. You see the pain, but you also see the healing. You see the problem, but you also see the solution. You see the lack, but you also see the provision. You see the the gap. but you also see the bridge. Lean towards seeing the brighter side. Lean towards creating a better version of yourself at any expense of time or effort. Lean into that & TRUST YOURSELF.
If we want to achieve great things, we must be intentional to focus on the right things even when chaos arises. If we are not intentional with our thoughts on life, then our human nature will automatically focus on the problem rather than finding and creating solutions.
What you focus on multiplies; so, undoubtedly, when you focus on your problems for too long, they will begin to feel big and overwhelming. When you allow your problems to be the loudest voice, you lose sight of hope and possibility. While it’s important to acknowledge the problems that exist, no good can evolve from focusing on your problems. It will not change your situation, make things better, or shift the atmosphere and pave the way for a breakthrough.
Here’s the good thing: the problems you face, while they may be roadblocks, they cannot keep you from the future that was intended for you. FIGURE OUT & FETCH SOLUTIONS. WHAT YOU FOCUS ON MULTIPLIES.
“Male ego” is a thing apparently. Most men like to think & believe they are superior to other men. To be honest there is no fun in that. Keep working towards becoming a better version of yourself, being superior to your previous self should be the goal.
Certain times in life you are the only problem & you are the only solution to that.
Don’t be afraid. Don’t forget what you are. I used to look upto you when things go up or down. You ruled my world. You was the only reason behind my happiness for a while. We all have a rough patch in our lives which dragged our self-esteem down to zero. Hiding & escaping isn’t a solution. Face it like what you used to be. How can you just give up? Lessons are learnt. Digest it, try to see life for what it is. Don’t be surprised when things get better. Any negativity can’t push you down for long. Open your eyes and allow yourself to see a better you. Experience some good days being a legit self. That 07-Feb is the best day of my life, actually 08-Feb for you. Vibe right. You are my sunshine, doesn’t matter where/what you are.
Meditation doesn’t mean you have to disconnect from world, clean your mind, go silent or so many more such bullshits. It means; “your shit is yours, deal with it comfortably one by one slowly but surely”.
Now my comfortable part is listening to linkin park songs & scream those lyrics wearing a boxer shorts in my bedroom after taking a shower. I find solutions to all problems during that while.