In LOVE, I have been elated and brokenhearted and felt every emotion in between. As I’ve gotten older I’ve learned to embrace the painful parts, because I realize they make me stronger and they are just parts of life. It hurts to power through the rough times but just like a muscle, it must be exercised before it’s able to become stronger.
Think about a specific painful moment in your life, and then think about how that feeling didn’t last forever even though you thought it would. Remember that life will continue to go on and time really does heal all wounds. I’m grateful for all the love and all the heartache I’ve experienced in my life. Both have been equally wonderful.
I am not a superhuman. I have walked the same life path as many others. Character, Truth, Consistent approach, Loyalty, Decency & Respect are way too expensive 2021. And this world is running on a discount sale right now, result is cheap people. Those who come at you will disappoint you one way or other, period.
Inconsistency was there. Disrespect was there. Misunderstandings were there. Inappropriate behaviour was there. Lies were there. Cheating was there. Unacceptable bullshits were playing catch catch. Heartbreak was there.
Good part is; all were there in past past past, my present has nothing but a beautiful life that people can only dream about. My lesson was: have EXPECTATIONS, but only from yourself. Always be the better person. And make your intentions pure. What and who you are is what will be remembered. Pain is inevitable and it will always exist. But if you focus on understanding what you are and what you are feeling, and why you are feeling it, you will overcome it.
The expectations we have often do not correspond with reality, we are disappointed every time this happens. We become disappointed when we expect to be treated as we treat others. When you start to realize that everyone is living at a different stage, thinking differently and making their choices, then you can only accept the fact that people do not share the same mind and heart. When you want to be happy you have to let go of that and start with yourself, be the person you can be proud of, be an example, show respect and understanding. Others may not change, but know that it is not up to you and be proud of how you are. You’ve got so much soul to be handled by someone who has never been passionate. EXPECTATION IS TO BE A BETTER HUMAN FIRST.
If I’ve learned anything from life, it’s that sometimes the darkest times can bring us to the brightest places. I’ve learned that the most toxic people can teach us the most important lessons; that our most painful struggles can grant us the most necessary growth, and that the most heartbreaking losses of friendship and love can make room for the most wonderful people. I’ve learned that what seems like a curse in the moment can actually be a blessing, and what seems like the end of the road is actually just the discovery that we are meant to travel down a different path. I’ve learned that no matter how difficult things seem, there is always hope. And I’ve learned that no matter how powerless we feel or how horrible things seem, we can’t give up. We have to keep going.
Even when it’s scary, even when all of our strength seems gone, we have to keep picking ourselves back up and moving forward, because whatever we’re battling in the moment, it will pass, and we will make it through. We’ve made it this far. We can make it through whatever comes next. (Not my words).
According to science, latest studies in neurobiology and psychology have come up with a theory called “3 LOVE” and according to that theory you are likely to fall in love three times in your lifetime. And only the third one is the love of your life. Let me explain;
First: PUPPY LOVE. It’s the first love that happens when you’re young. It’s the idealistic. Love that feels like a fairy tale, but it often ends over something silly and leaves you questioning whether it was love at all.
Second: HARD LOVE. This is the love where you love strongly and get hurt even stronger. It’s full of toxic cycles and drama betrayal and abuse. The Break-up is hard, but it builds you as a person. You focus on yourself. Now you know what you want and what you don’t want.
Third: THE TRUE LOVE. This comes blindly and creeps you. There is no warning. There’s no planning. You’ll find yourself caring about this person without even trying. They don’t look like your typical crush. But you get lost in them. You fall in love with the little things, it isn’t always easy but you want to build a life together. This is how, you know, when you’ve met the love of your life.
Those are not my words of course. Now the question is; “Do i believe in it?” My way of entertaining people is easy. I can’t trust anyone 100% except myself. People who stay consistent with their approach are just adorable to me. I already have 18-19 such amazing friends in my life. And i bet, “AS IF NOW LIFE IS FUN EVEN WITHOUT THAT LOVE”. But I can’t stop flexing my love for babies & puppies, i want at least 95 babies with my future wife. The more the better. Someday i would love to enter a relationship, get married with someone truthful, consistent & driven.
LOVE is LOVE when you find someone worth of you & you become worthy of them, just one person is your target. Eyes on the prize and get it.
In relationships, CHEATERS are those who can’t change themselves for the better but they keep on changing their same shitty cycle of relationship from one person to another person without guilt till Karma gets them. I just feel pity over these kinda morons who pick between two/three to enter or exit a relationship. That’s how these triangles, cheating & rest heartbreak bullshits come to play. And there is a big market of HEARTBREAK related nonsense, especially in music industry. No matter what happens to life, stay away from this market.
People have 3 faces. One they show to the world. Second they show to their friends & near dear ones. Third they hide it from everyone only to themselves.
I will not say I don’t have secrets in life. But I have shared it one after another time to time, mostly where I am the villian of that story. If there is something bad in me, the first one who talks about it will always be me as well. I was never a victim in my life, I can’t be & I don’t want to be. I have the exact amount of rudeness alive in me where I can show middle finger to all those who try to mess with my vibe. I live with a tiny principle “MAKE MONEY, BE TRUE & KIND. DONE.” I don’t have 3 faces.
I see young people crying/mourning over heartbreak. We all have been through this. Let me help you with two lines “RIGHT ONE WILL COMMIT AT RIGHT TIME. WRONG ONE WILL GIVE SOME RIGHT HEADS”. Learn to appreciate both, take life with a pinch of salt. Everything isn’t as good/bad as you see.