Date the one who cares with her whole head & heart. Date her if you can see yourself going for a drive while blasting throwbacks and screaming crazy every word of that track without being judged. Date her if you can see yourself at 4 in morning talking about life, goals and all of your passions. Date her if you can have fun with her but still crawl back into her arms when you really want/need to. Date her if she is humble but makes you feel confident and hypes you up. Date her if she can make you feel spoiled without any gifts or anything materialistic. Date her if she opens the door for you before leaving for work and never lets you leave without kissing you goodbye. Don’t date because she calls you baby/boo or if she says she cares about you but just asks for money & timeouts. Don’t date her if she talks badly about you to her friends or doesn’t defend you if they talk trash about you. Don’t date her because things may get better someday. You are living in present, efforts are needed right now.
If the person who’s reading this post is TAP; Don’t date her is she believes in ketchup, orange juice, vegan diet & naturally aspirated V12. SORRY DEMI.🤪
In this journey of life, we always come accross new people. Some become friends, some turn out to be romantic equations. And yes people put efforts to get things going. They put efforts, but they put efforts for a while. And that’s the fuck up. Humans don’t understand this one tiny thing; “You have to keep working on it forever to have a relationship/equation forever which yields happiness forever”.
Your life isn’t an AEROPLANE and RELATIONSHIPS don’t run on AUTOPILOT. (Said by DADDY TAP i guess).😜
Everybody’s happiness is limited to a limit, so is their sadness. Try climbing one step at a time to keep the flow steady & you will never feel like losing. Consistency is the key.
(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it if you love science. Girls & their make-up bs in YouTube is way too much generic, but this girl is doing something that’s one of a kind. Respect. Physics is fun.)
Don’t COMPARE your actual self to a hypothetical self. Don’t drown in a sea of ‘what if’s. Don’t clutter your mind by imagining other versions of you, in parallel universes, where you made different decisions, don’t PROCRASTINATE, because they don’t have much relevance left in your current situation.
The internet age encourages choice and comparison, but don’t do this to yourself. ‘Comparison is the thief of joy’, said Theodore Roosevelt. You are you. The past is the past. The only way to make a better life is from inside the present. To focus on regret does nothing but turn that very present into another thing you will wish you did differently. Accept your own reality. Be human enough to make mistakes. Be human enough not to dread the future. Be human enough to be, well, enough. Accepting where you are in life makes it so much easier to be happy for other people without feeling terrible about yourself.
You carry so much love in your heart. It’s time to give some LOVE to yourself. No one is you, and that’s your SUPERPOWER. EMBRACE YOURSELF.
Get excited about the little things. About wearing a new outfit for the first time. About Sunday full monty brunches with your mates. About the new cute girl in your class. About the good/bad grades in your test. About finding an extra buck in your pocket before laundry. About your pay raise/bonus from employer. About anything that even remotely makes you happy because as you grow up, passions fade and enthusiasm gets mistaken for foolishness. So don’t let the grey world stop you from shining.
Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and start being excited about what could go right. Each new day is a blessing. Let go of all worries and be grateful for all the positive in your life. Happiness is the new rich. Inner peace is the new success. Health is the new wealth. Kindness is the new cool. Be you & be HAPPY out of choice.
We all have shit days every now and then. All of us. No matter how perfect we aspire to be, and no matter how many things we promised ourselves we would do, sometimes all the things we wanted to achieve just can’t happen in one day and that is perfectly okay. That’s called being realistic. So your day was shit, well pick yourself right back up – chances are you achieved more than you think you did and you’re just being hard on yourself. Am I right? I think I am. Today was a bit of a fail. Oh well, that happens. Tomorrow is a new day. Get that chin up. You are a work in progress. Don’t be afraid to fail. Your mindset is your most under-valued asset.
(This paragraph got nothing to do with the post above. I appreciate those who sent BIRTHDAY WISHES in LinkedIn, Instagram/Twitter DMs, iMessage, Whatsapp & few e-mails as well. I thank my bank, insurance provider, credit card company, my employer & some brands for sending cakes/chocolates/cards/gifts. The fun part is; there’s a tiny mistake in my date of birth. My birthday is not 3-July, it’s actually 30-July. Only my family & close friends know the entire story. GOOD VIBES BACK TO ALL.)😜
Most people chase HAPPINESS like a temporary emotion. Happy today, sad tomorrow, broke next day & heartbroken another day. Fix your standards first. (Not talking about lifestyle. It’s about your way of living.) Then don’t accept anything below your standard.
You know, you sometimes think yourself into unhappiness and depression. But did you know, you could also think yourself into happiness? By positive thinking, you will be well, you will prosper, and your prayers will be answered. Become the master of your thoughts. Stop thinking about how tough life is. Stop thinking about the future and the past. Think of people who care about you & God’s riches and love, and express those thoughts daily. You will become what you think.
While you cannot always predict what the next season will bring or what it will look like or feel like, you can count on this: things will not always stay the same, they must evolve because they always evolve naturally.
Meaning; your circumstances are always going to be changing and if you want to make the most of each season. If you want to see each season be fruitful despite the circumstances, you must allow joy to be your compass. Learn to be happy despite what’s wrong with your situation & surroundings. LET JOY GUIDE YOU.