True me.. Tap-1031..

When you learn how to communicate with others there’s no problem you can’t solve.
It doesn’t mean you’ll always agree with other people and it certainly doesn’t mean that they will agree with you.
But none of that matters if you possess the maturity and the patience to work through your differences.
Think about how much more peace there would be on this planet if people would just talk through a problem instead of using violence & retaliation.

Do you have a friend or family member you have a really hard time getting through to?
Maybe now is the time to try again.
It never hurts to try.

You have to learn how to communicate if you want to get along in this world.

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True me.. Tap-1020..

4 Signs you’re MANIPULATIVE without realizing it:

1. Jealousy drives you to do risky things.

You resort to passive-aggressive tactics.
For example, you notice some friends who are not with you.

• You are offended and invite another friend to go out with you.
• You take a ton of pictures and post them on social media for all to see.
• When you feel like you’re losing control of a situation, you create another one that you can control.

Consider picking up a new hobby.
Accept that not everything other people do is related to you.

2. You’re kind of a know-it-all.

• You have the feeling that people should listen to you since you’re the one who knows the most.
• People around you may feel as though they are suffocating due to your actions.
• You may have a persistent desire to put yourself first, which may cause others to perceive you as selfish.

3. You pour attention on someone, then withdraw it if they do something wrong.

• You avoid people after an argument to prove a point.
• The point is that you don’t need them, and if they want to make up, they should go to you first.
• You feel the need to be in control.
• It’s important to remember that no one is perfect, including you.

4. You are adamant about getting your way.

• You are being persuasive.
• In some cases, you may have to go to great lengths to obtain your desired outcome.
• Assume you want candy for everyone, but others wish to have chocolate. So, what do you do? You get rid of all the chocolate, so they don’t have a choice.
• If you ever catch yourself doing these things, stop, take a deep breath, and take a step back.

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True me.. Tap-1006..

Instead of saying “I’m lazy,” saying “I’ve made a habit of not doing work unless it’s absolutely necessary.”
Instead of saying “I’m a bad friend,” saying “I haven’t communicated as much as I should with the people I care about.”

By being specific about your problems, and by framing it as an action that you are consciously either working on or ignoring rather than an unchangeable part of who you are, you allow yourself to accept your mistakes and work constructively on them instead of pretending they didn’t happen or wallowing in blaming yourself.

Honestly I think one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself is to separate your negative qualities from your identity. (Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-1002..

I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled christmas tree lights.
I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life.
I’ve learned that making a “living” is not the same thing as making a “life”.
I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back.
I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.
I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t have to be one.
I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone.
People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn.

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did,
but people will never forget how you made them feel.

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True me.. Tap-996..

I know people who graduated college at 21, and didn’t get a salary job until they were 27.
I know people who graduated at 25 and already had a salary job.
I know people who have children and are single.
I know people who are married and had to wait 8-10 years to be parents.
I know people who are in a relationship and love someone else.
I know people who love each other and aren’t together.
There are people waiting to love and be loved.
My point is, everything in life happens according to our time, our clock.
You may look at your friends and some may seem to be ahead or behind you, but they’re not, they’re living according to the pace of their clock, so be patient.

You’re not falling behind, it’s just not your time.
(Not my words.)

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I shared it just because i like this one. Very few will understand where this song is heading.)

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True me.. Tap-966..

There are plenty of moments in our lives when we struggle with making decisions, whether they’re small or large.
Our heart can be telling us one thing, our head another, and our friends something entirely different.
It’s important to weigh all options, then do what your heart truly believes is right.
Don’t just do what your friends are telling you to do, you must make your own decisions based on your intuition.

Next time you have to make a decision, weigh all the options, especially those of the heart, while measuring the logical side in head.

Only do what your heart tells you to.
-PRINCESS DIANA.

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True me.. Tap-964..

Listen to that little voice inside yourself, like a loving parent or a good friend.
This is the truest part of your soul, the key to your happiness.
Sometimes thoughts, fears or other people get too loud and we can’t hear ourselves.
Do what you need to do to get back in touch.

Today, follow what your heart tells you.
Nobody but you knows what is right for you, so listen to your instincts.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Carl Ichan is a big name in the world of investment. You can call him investor, business magnate or corporate raider, nobody knows takeover game better than this man. Big fan & this trailer looks fun. Investment is so easy that nobody does it. Invest 1000 quids in S&P-500 every month, just that much puts you in top 0.3% richest in 10 years. Business & Investment are two best games of mature stable happy people.)

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True me.. Tap-944..

We’re never doomed because we’re being reborn each day and life is filled with new opportunities.
You have the freedom to wake up one day and decide to travel the world, change career paths, or reach out to a friend you haven’t spoken to in years.
Every day is filled with new ideas and possibilities.

Do something unexpected and out of character today.
Free yourself.

Each morning, we are born again.
What we do today is what matters most.
-BUDDHA.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch this video to understand little more about our stupid human mindset on hustle, goals & achieving things in short. Nobody understands it’s about being productive & how much value you are bringing. IF YOU WANT TO MOVE FAST, GO SLOW.)

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True me.. Tap-921..

Listen to that little voice inside yourself, like a loving parent or a good friend.
This is the truest part of your soul, the key to your happiness.
Sometimes thoughts, fears, or other people get too loud and we can’t hear ourselves.
Do what you need to do to get back in touch.

Today, follow what your heart tells you.
Nobody but you knows what is right for you, so listen to your instincts.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I talk very little about games even though i play Xbox games almost every weekend for 1-2 hours. This game trailer looks amazing. Happy to see video game developers connecting cultures & deities.)

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