It’s so easy to walk by people and make judgments about who they are based on some small passing detail or flaw that you’ve observed. Maybe their attitude appears to be rude. Maybe they aren’t as outgoing as you are. Either way, without taking the time to actually get to know someone and hear what they’ve been through, you really have no right to judge anyone. The things we observe superficially are just that; they are false impressions that don’t tell you anything about what others have actually experienced.
Take the time to really get to know people. Ask them what their story is, and be a good listener. Sometimes the nicest people you come across are busy building life while being little carefree soaking the sunshine, and the judgmental ones go to church on sundays. Never judge a book by its cover.
You might not love all aspects of yourself right now but you can learn to accept it. Accept your flaws. Accept the positives and negative aspects of your story. Accept the parts of you that are deemed unacceptable by society. Self acceptance is the starting point to attain self love.
Stop worrying about other people understanding you. Get in touch with yourself instead. Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace. You are your biggest commitment. So start loving your flaws, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability, & your everything.
Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself. The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not. So why not make this next trip around the sun only about you!!
We humans pack tons of flaws in us & we always try to hide it. Let’s be true, we all have done this. We share only that much information which will make other side feel better about us. My problem here is, “What’s the point of trying that if you are not YOU!!”. That’s not the right way to fit in to someone’s life or some group/ideology. It’s exactly opposite, you are entering somebody’s book of misunderstanding.
That’s the reason every grifter thinks she/he is RIGHT by sharing half information about his half TRUTH. When you try to hide something no matter how small it is, you act like you are hiding something. People who care about you will notice it. And there are high chances few are losing their mojo because of that behaviour. LEARN TO BE YOURSELF. FLAWS ARE BEAUTIFUL IN CASE YOU CAN OWN THEM TRUTHFULLY.
I am never gonna propose my LOVE with a ring in my hand. I would rather prefer to be on my knees with a box full of condoms, lubes, anti pregnancy pills, a bare minimum badly planned vacation & hopefully a new husky puppy (Gonna name him snowball, yeah I grabbed it from Secret life of pets 2).
She will understand “I am not planning/faking it“. I am so ME in my stupid ways. I will see how well she receives me with all my flaws.
It’s a bug which bites all. We all have a story ongoing or behind to share related to the heading of this post. But one thing I would love to share is; LOVE is lite. Yes it is, Taking care of someone sidelining their flaws, Share your life with someone, Express your demands to that someone, Owning that someone’s sorrow & low, Communicate each & every aspect of your heartfelt desires with someone.
Yes build it on the foundation of COMMUNICATION, TRUTH & TRUST. Kill that ego, fear, deception & arrogance in you. Listen to your heart. Love is like a guide towards a better path in your life. Learn to balance it with your work & day-2-day life, maintain that partnership or give-and-take at 50/50. Stop thinking, start moving forward together.
All of it will definitely lead to some materialistic gains & intimacy in coming days. Don’t forget to buy enough condoms & lubes if you want to make your beloved feel special each moment. Dare to make a bold move someday. Get your boy/girl out on a party/dinner, express silently how you want to share the same bed forever with them from a specific date & name it marriage or ceremony of two people decided to fuck each other forever physically+mentally. It’s beautiful, trust me there. (Tip for my bros: Don’t hesitate to score that butthole, you deserve to get/give the best)
Now why things get wrapped up in shit?
Answer: Remember whatever you give will come back as it is. If you are brewing anything negative anywhere towards anyone, it will follow up towards you as well. Doesn’t matter it’s romantic or any other equation; time will make it worse for you in coming days. God blesses the broke first, because they need support to heal. And those who hurt others will get exactly the same today or tomorrow. Don’t wait till it blows up on your face. Develop the guts to seek forgiveness.
Universe knows how to balance scales. You focus more on being a person with right attitude & positive vibration. Truth sets everyone free. Life will definitely seem amazing at a point. We all are reaching our point of HAPPINESS. LOVE will follow the same path.