We assume success is about being famous, rich and owning expensive things. But if you’ve pulled yourself out of a dark place, that’s a great success in itself. Don’t forget that you’re winning each day you don’t give up and you make it through to the next.
Did you know that you’re achieving great things every day? It probably doesn’t seem like it if you’re always looking ahead to the next thing. Nevertheless, many of the things you’ve achieved today are things you dreamed about in the past. You just don’t notice them in the moment they happen. Or they pass you by too quickly.
Although we shouldn’t get so comfortable with our achievements that we become complacent and stop moving forwards, we should make time to celebrate them. Otherwise you’ll look back on your life and think you didn’t do anything significant. But if this were true, your life would always have remained the same. Celebrate your achievements, even though they are little.
More than anything, the world needs you to show up strong and courageous. People may not know it, They may not see it, They may not understand it, But deep within you, you have to see it and you have to recognize it.
You may not just see this at present moment, but you see what could be, and that’s a gift. You see the pain, but you also see the healing. You see the problem, but you also see the solution. You see the lack, but you also see the provision. You see the the gap. but you also see the bridge. Lean towards seeing the brighter side. Lean towards creating a better version of yourself at any expense of time or effort. Lean into that & TRUST YOURSELF.
With time moving up we see young people showing less intrest in relationships, basically most of us suck at COMMITMENT. Nobody answers you why!! But you will definitely spot a bunch of those who will say; “They are the perfect oak but weather is not helping. Claiming to be perfect is nothing but stupid”.
Answer: Expectations & optimism, It depends on what you expect from yourself & how optimistic you are about it!! There are many who aren’t stable with life, I am not talking about that problem. It’s just that, people know what they can ever be & becoming stable/rich someday is just an unachievable dream for them. This is what makes a person feel like they aren’t good enough. That’s where all desires start limiting one after another. And you never desire to buy a subway/train ticket to your next street in your city, you can do that anytime you want. You desire to travel/fly to Disneyland or a nice beach vacation out of your country and you start saving for that. Relationships are like that DESIRE, you invest little after little time to get something bigger one day. All sums up to; No matter it’s relationship or any other goals of your life; DESIRE BIG, HAVE EXPECTATIONS ONLY FROM YOURSELF, INVEST YOUR ENERGY WITH TIME, REMAIN OPTIMISTIC ABOUT THE OUTCOME & STAY AWAY FROM THE CHEAP IF YOU EVER WANT EXPERIENCE EXPENSIVE.
I swear I love money over anything/anyone, & I am brutally honest about it. But there is always a but in everything we are going through. “NEVER DO SOMETHING IF THE SUCCESS IS TOO EASY”, I learnt this lesson after getting my butt kicked twice. Can’t negotiate that in me.
I love the journey of earning & fetching something with time. That’s the reason I don’t believe in lottery or betting. There is nothing called easy success, easy money or easy relationship. If it’s easy, anyone can have it. If anyone can have it, I don’t want it. DESIRES are expensive by nature which makes them DESIRABLE. You have to work & earn it.