There are people who notice you only when you shine, or when you fall into the darkness. Not the average you. Not the mediocre you. But the great you, or the not-so-great you. The people who are worthiest of your care are not those who only notice you at your best and worst but those who are with you at all times. They don’t need an excuse to love you. They don’t need an excuse to talk to you, or to ask you how you’re doing!! They don’t need an excuse to share their happiness with you. They don’t need an explanation. They give you one without you asking for it. They assume the good in you before the bad.
So keep eyes open just so you don’t miss those people. Such equations take long long time & trust to develop. Once you find them, never let them go because those are not just friends but family members. They’re life companions. They are the people who will tell you when you are wrong simply because they’ve allowed themselves to tie their well-being to yours. (Not my words). Vibe with people who are good for you.
If you’re the person who is always there for others, Know that your heart is rare. Know that you give people hope. Know that you make people feel wanted. Know that you make people feel seen. Know that you make people feel like they have a purpose.
However, also remind yourself that you are not invincible. Your heart needs rest. You need rest. Remind yourself, That you do not need to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders. That you may not be able to save everyone. That you may not be able to heal every hurt. That you deserve to take all of the energy you put out into the world and invest it back into yourself from time to time. That you are worthy of the love you keep giving to everyone else. That you don’t always have to be strong. That you don’t always have to be the fixer. You can be human. You can ask for help. Remind yourself that you can take a break & you can take a step back to nourish the softness inside of you.
Most people always start worrying too much about being nice. Before i say anything against you, let me be clear I appreciate you & your concern.
My way of thinking is little different. Kindness can affect both the giver and receiver in a positive way, but worrying about whether or not you’re nice enough can actually hurt you. Feeling anxious when you think about how others perceive you can be a huge drain on your energy. You need to remember that your needs must be met before you can give to others. If you forget to leave some mental energy for yourself, you could find yourself suffering from burnout or depression. Always first prioritise yourself.
Sharing something basic yet important today. Let’s talk about SLOUCHING. It’s not just about bad posture or bad manner. So why you must sit straight!!
The consequences of slouching are worse than merely having bad manners. It puts pressure on your spine and internal organs and influences how you feel. Sitting up straight isn’t just about having good etiquette, It’s good for your overall health and that means both physical and mental. Good posture correlates with reduced symptoms of depression, increased energy levels and a more positive attitude. Even such small things make a difference. In case you are sitting while reading this post, just sit straight.
Being observant is fun, once in a while just enjoy sitting back. Just observing everything around you, crazy pretensious people, the constant postings on social media, the scandals and disrespectful behavior of actors/politicians/government officials, all may split you off because there is more to life. So just take a break, observe everything & keep on reminding yourself that; you must never become something this level of mediocre one day.
We must believe in being a true self, first you be the person you expect to welcome to your life, radiate the energy you want to be around. Learn to be humble and encouraging to all, but don’t put your time and trust if people don’t deserve. I have a simple word for it, KARMA & I do believe in it. So, be observant to not make similar stupid mistakes & create GOOD KARMA.
The usual rate of success in any field of life is somewhere around 3% to 5%. What about rest 95-97% who are left out in the race? The answer lies in “LACK OF SKILL-SET CAUSING LACK OF SELF-CONFIDENCE”.
Developing the right set of skills is a major pillar of success. Confident people never neglect their skills & people with right skill-set are confident about what they do. So much of low self-confidence comes from not having the skills or training needed for great success. Those with confidence see clearly what they need to do to improve their chances of success. They are willing to commit the time and energy in improving their skills, advancing their training or getting more education in order to be more confident in their abilities. First master your SKILLS before marching on your journey to SUCCESS.
One thing which distinguishes every confident person from random crowd while we discuss SUCCESS: They don’t focus on weaknesses.
Most people think it’s worthwhile to put more time into strengthening their weaknesses those with confidence. However, understand that success comes with continuing to improve upon your strength. They are able to accept their own weaknesses gracefully and put more time and effort into endeavors where they know they’ll have more likelihood of success. A confident person maximizes his time and energy every way possible.