Throughout the years I have learned three major things;
1. Sometimes bad things happen to good people and sometimes you might think you know someone, you might think they’re on your side but deep down inside they’re not. Pay attention. True intentions take you towards right action. Actions speak louder than words. And wrong people use words to cover up truth with lies.
2. Almost everything we go through we can’t control. That means, if it’s yours, then somewhere down the line it’ll return to you and if it’s not, then you have to make peace with it and move on, It’s as simple as that.
3. Letting go is never an easy thing to do. No matter how many times you’ve rehearsed it, no matter how many times you’ve played it in your head, it never goes as planned and almost always does it sting a little harder than you thought.
(Not my words).
AT THE END OF THE DAY IT’S NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE OR EVEN WHAT YOU’VE ACCOMPLISHED. IT’S ABOUT WHO YOU’VE LIFTED UP, WHO YOU’VE MADE BETTER. IT’S ABOUT WHAT YOU’VE GIVEN BACK.
When your body is too tired to carry on, when your soul feels weary from the journey, when your mind feels exhausted!!
Take control and ask yourself the question: WHAT DO YOU WANT?
Then, answer it. DOUBTING YOURSELF IS NORMAL. LETTING IT STOP YOU IS A CHOICE. And, every time, when the fulfillment of your answer outweighs the uncomfortableness that you are feeling in the moment, CARRY ON. DON’T QUIT. KEEP MARCHING TOWARDS YOUR GOAL.
TOMORROW IS A DIRECT RESULT OF WHAT YOU CHOOSE TO DO TODAY. (Not my words).
FEELINGS, the thing about this way that you feel right now is that it’s only temporary. I know that your mind is consumed right now, suffocating; it’s like you can’t find a way to think about anything other than the things that are causing you anxiety. These feelings don’t last. It may not feel like it right now, but this feeling will fade; maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but you will smile again, you will feel like you again, you will feel happy and full of life again. Nothing is permanent. That’s the bittersweet part about life. That’s why it’s so important to appreciate the truly amazing parts and people in your life while also understanding that the bad days won’t last forever. Always be present, always be grateful, always know that you’ll get through this obstacle and the one after that.
You’re so much stronger than you think you are right now. Think about it; you’ve gotten through every tough day in your life so far, and this is no different. Take a big breath and think of all the things you have to be grateful for and breathe out all the bad. You are in control of how you feel. You are in control of this moment. YOU ARE IN CONTROL. PERIOD.
There are two days in every week about which we should not worry. Two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension.
One of these days is YESTERDAY with all it’s mistakes. Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control. All the money in the world cannot bring back yesterday. We can’t undo a single act we performed. We cannot erase a single word we said. Yesterday is gone. Its faults and blunders, Its aches and pains.
The other day we should not worry about is TOMORROW. With it’s possible adversities, It’s burdens, It’s large promise and poor performance. Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control. Tomorrow’s Sun will rise, either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds, but it will rise. Until it does, we have no stake in tomorrow, for it is yet unborn.
This just leaves only one day; TODAY. Any person can fight the battles of just one day. It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternity’s yesterday and tomorrow that we break down. It is not the experience of today that drives people mad. It is the remorse or bitterness for something which happened yesterday and the dread of what tomorrow may bring. Let us therefore live but one day at a time. BE YOU & LIVE YOUR TODAY. (Not my words).
Someway or other we all have this attitude of “Discounting the positives”. I am talking about not taking responsibility for the good things of our life. It’s a form of negative bias in thinking. This thought pattern is different than ignoring or overlooking the positivity in our life. Instead when good things happen, you might believe that it was luck or explain it away a circumstance. When you don’t acknowledge that your success is yours, you’ll start to feel a lack of control over your life.
If you fail to recognize how your hard work, good decision and skills help you accomplish your goals, your levels of motivation will decrease over time. This is known as learned helplessness. Cherish yourself with some positive vibe time after time.
Weak attitude always results weak character. To figure out what’s your attitude with life, keep yourself bound to two ways “EITHER LIVE LIKE A KING OR WHO THE FUCK IS A KING!!”. This attitude will take you to places. Never run behind reputation or popularity, they will fade. CHARACTER will remain with you till you die. That’s the reason you can’t copy character, you have to hammer & forge yourself into one.
My ancestors belong to the land of ASHOKA, Maurya dynasty. Such sayings still exist, it’s us humans who usually forget our values. At the end “YOUR CHARACTER CONTROLS YOUR MIND’S CREATION”. A strong CHARACTER with sorted ATTITUDE is the goal. That’s all. Tap OUT..💪
Business or any sort of investment is like watching a child/tree grow big & tall in front of your eyes with time. It has no short term benefits behind it. If you really want some quick excitement, you should book a cheap flight ticket to neighboring country & get on with it. Having a control over money is the first lesson of entering men’s world.