It’s better to be an original version of yourself than an exact duplicate of someone else. People respect individuals who are original. Too many people try too hard to be someone else they are not. And in the end, they don’t have a sense of identity.
Discover who you are and what you stand for. What the world needs are more people who are true to themselves, not clones of each other. Be yourself.
EGO never accepts the TRUTH.
If you know me personally or you follow what I post in this blog, hopefully you already know there are two kinds of people I hate the most “SMOKERS & LIARS”. Smokers are those people who don’t give a shit about their own health or their family’s health while neglecting the fact “SECOND HAND SMOKING is dangerous as well”. The funniest part is dumbfucks who smoke weed to look/feel cool or calm, there are tons of reasearch yet to be done to prove whether marijuana is addictive or harmful to health.
Let me share an amazing incident that happened before this pandemic. It’s about a friend who came for a late night party & started smoking weed in my balcony. I showed her my gate while explaining “how to go out of my apartment right away during a cold chilly weather” & stopped talking to her even after receiving 80-90 sorry/sorrow filled texts. First it’s illegal to smoke weed where I live, second I might have done the same even if it’s a stupid cigarette. This same person started countering my aggressive opinion against weed/smoking by saying: “Even your favourite Elon Musk smoked weed on camera & everyone smokes weed now a days”. My response to that; “please give me that list of everyone, so that I can stay away from every piece of shit in that everyone’s list. Elon Musk owns couple billion dollars & also running 5-6 most ridiculously successful companies. Where are yours??!”
Here’s a video by vice explaining how/why illegal weed money goes to all sorts of crime & in few cases straight towards terrorism.
Takeaway; a person with loose morals & cheap mentality will always find it’s way to shit from mouth no matter how badly you want them to behave.
Every Saturday or Sunday I devote 25 minutes to schedule next month’s posts you see here everyday 7am & 7pm. My friends suggest “I should write more words to elaborate it further or something like an article”. My problem is “I don’t have that much patience or drive to write something more than 100-200 words without getting paid for it”.😜
Still I see few people appreciate what I write & I swear I adore all. My expertise is limited to fields of data analytics, making little money with my business & punish myself with 200 push-ups when I eat an extra slice of cheesecake. Yeah I bake amazing sugar free cheesecake & sourdough pizza every weekend. Appreciated.
Some people hate you because you are too good at something. Learn to live with that, you have earned that BADASSERY.
If we aren’t talking at least once in a week, your LOVE or HATE matters nothing to me. I will keep living the banter life.
(I am seeing backbiting has become a real good timepass for few in this pandemic/lockdown situation. Those who talk behind are BEHIND for a reason.)
People want your TIME, so that they can misuse it. Dare to say “NO” to those with whom you can’t vibe.
If you wanna make money to afford your desires, SPOT ON you are on right track. If you are doing so to please people around you, then ask yourself once “what’s the necessity & is it even worth it!?”
People always play this People card which involves parents, partner, siblings, friends or own kids. What you do at the end is “flexing how good you are at in supporting others!!” Let’s be true, you did that only to satisfy your motives. Be blunt about your desires & motives instead. People or things, somehow both are temporary. When you work towards your desires, you are feeding your soul some healthy dose of happiness. There is nothing wrong in being selfish towards fetching your happiness.