Tru2Day1132

Remember, most of your stress comes from the way you respond, not the way life is.
Adjust your attitude.
Change how you see things.
Look for the good in all situations.
Take the lesson and find new opportunities to grow.
Let all the extra stress, worrying, and overthinking go.


True me.. Tap-1009..

Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it.
The small things in life don’t need to be worried and stressed about so much.
The alarm can be fixed.
The tire can be replaced.
The coffee can be refilled.
The parking ticket can be paid.
The keys can be found.
The to-dos can get to-done.
You can get sleep.
You can get some food.
Maybe a snickers to satisfy.

Your life is great.
You just have to allow it to be.
People don’t make you angry.
You allow the anger to dwell within you.
Circumstances don’t upset you.
You allow yourself to get upset.
You choose to worry.
You choose to criticize.
You choose to blame.
And you choose to complain.
No one else decides this for you.
Your ATTITUDE is what determines your day.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-993..

The most attractive thing about you should have less to do with your face and body, and more to do with your heart and how you treat other people.

Let’s face it, we see an appearance first and have our first impression based on an appearance.
Our appearance is where we can hide behind.
But an appearance does not say anything about a character.
Nowadays it seems that we judge each other on our appearance, who we are and what we stand for does not seem to matter.
No effort is made to get to know the person behind an appearance.

It is our own mental attitude which makes the world what it is for us.
Our thoughts make things beautiful, our thoughts make things ugly. Not our eyes.
The whole world is in our minds.
Learn to see things in proper light.
Learn to see souls instead of bodies, by using your mind instead of your eyes.
LEARN TO SEE.

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-980..

3 things to admire:
Humility, Confidence, Commitment.

3 things to maintain:
Friendship, Honesty, Consistency.

3 things to control:
Tongue, Temper, Temptation.

3 things to prevent:
Laziness, Complaining, Doubt.

3 things to watch:
Attitude, Behavior, Language.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I like SNL for good reasons. No matter how hard i try, i struggle to understand how & why there’s a thing called TIKTOK in existence. I mean, how this 15 seconds of entertainment on loop works!! If i want to watch some dance, i will watch a STEP UP movie, for music there’s YouTube. I have a big dislike for such apps like TIKTOK which fuel instant gratification in young generation.)

Tap OUT..✌️

Sunday story time.. 06.

Everyone wants to know how i tolerate my bestfriend DEMI since past 700 years of our friendship because her attitude is bit aggressive?

Let me answer & YES, it’s a long answer:
We were attending Lory’s birthday party near Cardiff bay. Party was over & some Justin Bieber song started playing. DEMI walked towards me & said; “Rudey, my pussy is drying up because of this shit song. Let’s leave & let’s drive to Tenby. We will talk about everything after reaching the beach.”

We both laughed & i still remember those exact words. And Yes, DEMI still calls me RUDEY because of my rude/angry/grumpy face.
We went through a bad fight before 5 months of that birthday party & i stopped talking to Demi. I decided i must allow her some time to think & respond logically instead of continuing that fight.
Only few friends know Tenby is my favourite coastal town in Britain & i prefer afternoon swimming when i think about relaxing.
DEMI made the right choice with place & timing.
We went swimming & she broke the ice while chilling at beach. We had a long open vivid conversation about everything which went loose.
We were able to come back stronger.
Years gone & our equation keeps getting better with time.
No matter how much i deny, she is the sassiest angel i ever came across. Bestfriends for some good reasons, and i can’t appreciate more.

(DON’T ASK ABOUT THE PICTURE. OLD ONE & STOLEN FROM MY SNAPCHAT.)

27-Feb is the date we had a bad fight & we both stopped communication for 5 months. We both still talk about the stupid reason behind it & what we missed in those 5 months. We laugh at each other’s silent treatment. We tease each other about why that was just unnecessary.

We humans always take goodness for granted & our ego stops us from accepting our flaws.
We miss opportunities.
We disrespect good people.
Sometimes we hurt others without even knowing.
We make blunders easily.

But there are very few who accept & cross that path to acknowledge own mess.
Who says it’s easy!!
Very few are ready to talk about what’s wrong in them & why they are ready to change for better instead of farting from mouth “THAT’S HOW I AM”.
I admire those who strive to be a better human.
It’s easy to go vulnerable towards such people who come with clean intentions.
Every equation can be easy, soothing, happening & loving.
JUST CHOOSE THOSE WHO CHOOSE YOU.

Tap OUT..😘

Tru2Day1034

Attitude is a choice.
Happiness is a choice.
Optimism is a choice.
Kindness is a choice.
Giving is a choice.
Respect is a choice.

Whatever choice you make makes you.
Choose wisely.

True me.. Tap-931..

If anyone tells you that you can’t live the life you imagined, you don’t have to prove them wrong, just keep on working your hardest and know in your heart that you can achieve it.
Use their doubtful attitude as motivation.

You deserve all the happiness in the world, so pursue it with all the madness and passion in your soul.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.
Live the life you have imagined.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I can literally laugh at these women little over a hundred times within 20 seconds. If you ask me about my level of TRUST, i don’t think i will ever transfer money even to my future wife’s bank account. It’s not about MONEY, it’s about the purpose. If you don’t own your shit, i think nobody should entertain you in any form of relationship.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-894..

Don’t waste time with people who don’t appreciate and value you for everything you have to offer.
I see people keep chasing someone thinking they can change them or friends who don’t have their best interests at heart, but it doesn’t work that way.
One of the keys to lasting relationships and friendships is MUTUAL RESPECT.

Don’t squander your time chasing anyone who has told you they don’t want you around.
Evaluate all your relationships and weed out the negative ones.
Go where you are wanted and stray from where you aren’t.
Surround yourself with positive people and environments.
(Not my words.)

Tap OUT..✌️

True me.. Tap-886..

Each one of us has the capacity to experience deep joy, but it sometimes takes work.
If you’ve been feeling down, take a look at the kinds of thoughts you’ve been having.
Maybe even write them down just so you can really see the way you currently view life.
If you find that your thoughts are more negative than positive, you have to make a conscious effort to start changing them.

Make a list of all your negative thoughts and then write out the opposite thought for each one.
Stand in front of the mirror and read the positive thoughts out loud to yourself.

Happiness does not depend on what you have or who you are; it solely relies on what you think.

Tap OUT..✌️

Tru2Day981

REMEMBER, MOST OF YOUR STRESS COMES FROM THE WAY YOU RESPOND, NOT THE WAY LIFE IS.

ADJUST YOUR ATTITUDE.
CHANGE HOW YOU SEE THINGS.
LOOK FOR THE GOOD IN ALL SITUATIONS.
TAKE THE LESSON AND FIND NEW OPPORTUNITIES TO GROW.
LET ALL THE EXTRA STRESS, WORRYING AND OVERTHINKING GO.