True me.. Tap-862..

Find someone who loves you well.
Someone who never belittles you even in the heat of an argument.
Someone who is gentle with you, but does not treat you like you are fragile.
Someone who knows what you are capable of, and celebrates those pieces of you.
Not someone who is intimidated by your strength.
Someone who doesn’t make you feel guilty for being flawed.
It is not love’s job to punish you.
And remember the person you love is just as broken as you are when they fall short.
No one is perfect do not hold them to this standard.

Find someone who is patient, consistent, forgiving, and apologetic.
Someone who practices forgiveness freely and often.
Love someone who is humble, kind, and empathetic.
Not only with you, but with a beggar on the street, or a stranger in the supermarket.
Common courtesy is important.
Compassion is important.
Kindness is important.

Now that i mentioned something about relationships twice in a day, my university friends will again start questioning whether i am seeing someone! Let me answer even before that question pops up. Most of my posts are scheduled a month advance. Typing these two paragraphs today right before the post goes live.

I entertained something inconsistent for a while. Whatever happened, I am not strong enough to blame or hate anyone. Let’s say, that was my fault. I am in the process of becoming single. In Snapchat, if you see my hands resting on some girl’s fine ๐Ÿ‘, high chances it’s either my bestie DEMI or my neighbour girl. Yes, i have a ting towards athletic girls.โ™Œ But I don’t have a TYPE whom i want to date. First i have to be ready, next the connection must vibe positivity & remain consistent, that’s all. The most beautiful part about a girl where my heart goes little weak; when i feel she is grabbing my arms little stronger looking into my eyes with a wide big bright smile, while crossing baby/kid’s clothing section in shopping malls. Everyone knows i adore kids, they are angelic to me. 2023 goal is to become the best A+ dad world has ever seen, and i will settle to be a good B+ boyfriend/husband i guess.๐Ÿ˜‚

Tap OUT..โœŒ๏ธ

Tru2Day824

Everything you do is based on the choices you make.
It’s not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument or your age that is to blame.
You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make, period.

True me.. Tap-578..

You will never win an argument with a narcissist. People with narcissistic tendencies are unable or utterly uninterested in resolving a conflict at hand. They simply cannot have a healthy mature conversation. If you’ve ever found yourself arguing with a narcissist, you know that you are always left wondering why you even engage with them in the first place!!

The trouble is when you have a narcissist in life, even a small request for comment can turn into a full-blown argument that goes around and around in circles. And the worst part is that, you feel guilty by the end of it even if nothing is your fault. Well here it’s not you, it’s them. Narcissists are highly skilled in manipulation techniques that are meant to confuse and disorient you. You’re not communicating with a logical mind and that’s why you always feel insane after disagreements. So do what you can to avoid getting into these arguments in the first place, that’s the only way to win.

Tap OUT..๐Ÿค—

Tru2Day128

In a relationship if someone is not moving up with time; just move forward with your life towards your goals & success, with or without them. You need a better you tomorrow. If deserving & you both are meant to be together, the other person will step up to catch up.

6 Signs you aren’t in LOVE!!

Love means, we constantly improve communication & consistency, practice patience. It also means just leave when things aren’t equal anymore.

6 signs you aren’t in LOVE:

1. You moved things fast with your partner.
Infatuations thrive on speed, while LOVE takes time to develop. Infatuations live in illusion. Love can survive reality. When you quickly jump into a relationship with someone, you base it off your dreams more than whose really in front of you. Common examples are; thinking about a future with them, lusting after some legit emotions or obsessing about them for anything in your head. All of these are done after months and years of knowing them, that you just slipped/skipped.

2. You expect them to be flawless.
And you get angry or upset over them when you see their true colours. Do you believe in soulmates or fate? It sounds good in theory. But we all know infatuations also need perfection to survive. We need our partners to be consistently well dressed, good with their words or impressive with their accomplishments, meantime you are not giving them space to be honest. Love on the other hand is grounded. When you love someone, you accept their imperfections, you work through the bad and enjoy the good together.

3. You are not comfortable enough around them. Who hasn’t felt self-conscious about saying the wrong thing or making bad decisions/impressions? But when you truly fall in love with someone, that’s when you can let loose and stop caring so much. Those who have a strong sense of love and belonging are more open to vulnerability. Whereas those who feel disconnected with their partners consistently build their walls up. When you don’t share your emotions and struggles nor secrets with someone, you haven’t fully loved.

4. You become more distant.
It’s normal for passion to intensify initially only to taper off, which isn’t gonna help you into a steady relationship. But two people in love will still want to be around each other frequently. That’s another reason people in love plan a life together equally over indulging in rest activities. If you find yourself wanting to get away from your partner more and more these days, often because you’d rather go hang out with your friends or family or cat/dog, then something’s up.

5. Your mind is elsewhere.
With mind soon your heart also follows the same route. Partners who are in love tend to maintain a focus on their counterparts. When you notice the little things about them or express concerns when the two of you run into conflict, it shows you care for them. If you avoid those tough conversations or slip away from arguments, you also stop emphasizing their importance in your life.

6. You developed anxiety.
Have you been experiencing digestive problems or have trouble sleeping/over sleeping? Anxiety can show in this bodily disfunction. You might have something you need to get off your chest and dread how to break the news off to your partner. Remember you can only run away from the truth for so long before it catches upto you.

Forcing LOVE when it’s absent will only hurt the two of you. Both of you deserve to find love elsewhere if it can’t be found in your relationship.
Where do you think you stand on your feelings? Dig deeper, learn yourself with little Truth and self evaluation.

Relationship TAROT (13-31-July-2019)..

Let’s read cards first. I will tell you more later. This is for collective, irrespective of any SUN-MOON-RISING Zodiac/Element.

1. Knight of Wands: This card represents FIRE element (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius). It talks about Power, Passion & Frustration too. Basically Knight of Wands is a fast moving person/feelings who can jump/switch between places or people if he/she isn’t getting what’s needed. This is the play boy/girl your parents adviced you to stay away. ๐Ÿ˜œ

2. The Moon: The moon is card for Cancer Zodiac. It’s a element under WATER sign, which is all about thoughts. Thoughts can be about Illusions, Psychic messages or dreams.

3. The Hermit: This card represents zodiac sign VIRGO under element EARTH. The behaviour of the person you are dealing with has put you under a stress/trauma. It can also point towards deep contemplation about a situation/person, that’s why you entered HERMIT mode. Just thinking & thinking without making any moves or taking any actions. It’s about a period of silent pause.

4. Knight of Pentacles: This is also a card under element EARTH, but represents Zodiacs of Aquarius/Capricorn/Pisces. Which talks about reputation/reliability/results/risk. So now that you have enough information about the situation/person after so many things going in your head/heart, you have a clear picture about what to give/get. The problem with this card/situation is; this is the slowest moving knight in entire deck & this slowness can make otherside feel bored.

You need to fasten up your thought or moves to get what/whom you need. After having a heart to heart conversation with yourself, you realised the value of yourself & your person. It’s time to build something beautiful with someone stable & mature who knows how to stand/walk their TRUTH.

Now mercury already in retrograde & next full moon on 16-July-2019, YES all emotions will pour out emotionally & some in action too. Before reaching a conclusion, wait till retrograde period is over on 02-August-2019. I am not only saying this in perspective of relationships, maybe you are planning to start a new job or business as well. Just stay away from all reboot or anything new for a while, things done during this timeframe are short-lived.

(N.B: Guidance are for those who seek. If you have a strong head & heart; please avoid such readings & follow your intuition.)

Pick up wack!! Best one- Hope SO..

This one is from my university days.

Yes, I was crushing over a raunchy brunette during those days. Definitely not Love, I was never ready for that. Once met that girl near bus stop during a rainy day. A tiny conversation lead to so much more later on, not a line. Just read it..๐Ÿ˜‚

Girl: Heya Tap. Where you wanna go in this weather?

Tap: Hey not much. It’s spar, to buy chicken breasts & wine.

Girl: I heard a lot about those late night parties in your apartment.

Tap: Yeah, I would love to invite you someday.

Girl: Is there a barbecue party tonight as well?

Tap: Yeah.

Girl: You shouldn’t invite me, I am totally wet because of this rain.

Tap: Rather I would love to invite you right now. Let me show you the right way to get wet. ๐Ÿ˜‚

(No further 18+ talks, I am a big flirt. & Yes I know how to scratch the right cord).

Tru2Day67

Some people put a front like they are happy as fuck, without any such gain. If you have sorrow or some emotions inside, pour it out to seem like a legit human.

You can’t catch a fish without hook. Stop damaging your own brain with mindgames.

True me.. Tap-46..

People may hurt, scold, betray, abuse & break your heart. Stay strong, don’t behave like a pussy. Everything happens for a reason. Your other side is earning their karma by misusing you. At the end someone beautiful is coming to clean all & adore you for what you are. Your Truth & goodness will be rewarded at any cost. Stay positive, vibe right.

Tap OUT..๐Ÿ˜˜