True me.. Tap-915..

Most of our lives move at such an accelerated pace we don’t always have the time to stop and reflect on how far we’ve come.
We are usually too busy looking ahead.
But it’s so important to keep checking in with yourself.
We change all the time.
It’s easy to get caught up feeling dissatisfied with where you are when you don’t take the time to appreciate how far you’ve come.
You don’t have to be exactly where you want to be, but the fact that you are on your way is remarkable.
Good things and progress take time.

Make today all about celebrating how far you’ve come in your life since last year.
What is something you’ve changed in your life that you are proud of?
Remember how far you’ve come, not just how far you have to go.
You are not where you want to be, but neither are you where you used to be. (Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-905..

Your life will pass one way or another.
The events that will unfold are the events that will unfold.
You will meet amazing people who you are meant to.
You will find the opportunities you need.
You will desire what you want.
The choice is not what you experience, but how.
How is everything.
How is golden.
How closes doors and it opens them.
How creates something out of nothing.

It is not the years we live, but HOW we live them.
It is not who we cross paths with, but how we love them & appreciate them.
It is not what we are given or not, but how we take what’s in front of us and turn it into all we ever needed it to be.
It is how we experience life, day in and day out, in the quietest moments and biggest ways.
The HOW is the way.

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True me.. Tap-894..

Don’t waste time with people who don’t appreciate and value you for everything you have to offer.
I see people keep chasing someone thinking they can change them or friends who don’t have their best interests at heart, but it doesn’t work that way.
One of the keys to lasting relationships and friendships is MUTUAL RESPECT.

Don’t squander your time chasing anyone who has told you they don’t want you around.
Evaluate all your relationships and weed out the negative ones.
Go where you are wanted and stray from where you aren’t.
Surround yourself with positive people and environments.
(Not my words.)

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True me.. Tap-890..

Nobody knows how long we are on earth for; you don’t want to waste your time here stressing about the next day.
You should just appreciate the moment and try to cherish it as often as you can.

Realise that time is limited and challenge yourself to live each day to the fullest.
What is a way you can live your life to the fullest today?

Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is a mystery.
But TODAY is a gift, make the best of it & make the most of it.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. I like SNL for some valid reasons. One of the best skits from Pete Davidson.)

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True me.. Tap-864..

In this generation it is almost exceptional that we look after each other and stand up for each other.
There is competition and power struggles everywhere, but why?
We could achieve so much more together if we support, respect and appreciate each other.
I don’t compete with anyone, I am myself, I have different goals, norms and values, I am unique, just like you are, and for that we are not competitors but equals.

Jealousy, competition and grudging are therefore hugely misguided, it is impossible to compare yourself to another.
The only thing you can do is look at yourself, develop yourself, compete with yourself and become your own ideal image.
There is no room for jealousy, grudging and hatred, as this will always negatively affect your self development and self-image.

Focus on your own goals and work on yourself.
Respect that you will never be like others and they will never be like you.
Don’t change for anyone.
Change for yourself.
You are your own and only competition.

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True me.. Tap-841..

When I give, it does not come with strings.
I’m not keeping track of what you owe me.
When I give, I choose to do so without ulterior motives.
I give because I’m genuine.
I give because I know what it’s like to be without.
To long for and be ignored.
To speak and not be heard.
To care for and have nothing returned.
When I give it’s because I get it.
It’s because I know the value in what I have in my heart and I refuse to let the world stop me from sharing that.
But when things start being taken for granted,
When you no longer appreciate my sincerity,
I won’t switch, I won’t get angry, and I won’t be spiteful.
I’ll just get smart and I’ll change your role in my life.
Because when I give, I’m all in.
But when I’m done, there’s no looking back.

I stopped sending paragraphs.
I stopped telling people how to behave.
I stopped entertaining retaliation & inconsistency.
I stopped telling people how important is communication.
I started walking away from all these crap, blocking, and distancing myself.
Life is becoming peaceful.
Sometimes being yourself & independent in life is better than being surrounded by halfass people.

(This post is not for those who came & vanished in past. It’s for my future person, in case you experience something is odd in me or missing in me, just say it and keep forgiving me till you experience the best of me.)

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True me.. Tap-837..

FIVE GENTLE REMINDERS:

1. The kindest people aren’t born that way, they are made. They are the souls that have experienced so much at the hands of life, they are the ones who have dug themselves out of the dark, who have fought to turn every loss into a lesson. The KINDEST people do not just exist, they choose to soften where circumstance has tried to harden them, they choose to believe in goodness, because they have seen firsthand why COMPASSION is so necessary. They have seen firsthand why TENDERNESS is so important in this world.

2. Surround yourself with people who are doing the work to HEAL themselves. Surround yourself with those who want to talk to you about IDEAS rather than other human beings. Surround yourself with people who LOVE and RESPECT themselves, people who are GENTLE and KIND and who ENCOURAGE CONNECTION. Surround yourself with people who genuinely show up in your life, people who don’t just want attention, or praise, or validation from you. Surround yourself with those who want to GROW with you. These people will change your life.

3. Being understood fosters a different kind of INTIMACY that is untouchable. The rarest, most profound kind of connection you are going to experience will not be with the person who instantly gratifies you, but rather, with the kind of human being who sees you clearly. Ask yourself who makes you feel the most you? Who sees you in ways you don’t see yourself? Who pours calm and ease into the heart of you? Those people who came to mind are rare and beautiful gifts. Never take them for granted.

4. Do not just be THANKFUL for the things you deem positive in life. Be thankful for the EMOTIONS you also deem negative, because it is within the darkness that we grow to APPRECIATE the light. The hardest things in life are building you, and reminding you of your capacity to overcome. At the end of the day, nothing you have experienced thus far has defeated you. There is POWER in reminding yourself of that. You are capable of braving the storms, that is what they are there to teach you.

5. Please don’t ever forget that so many human beings you come into contact with are all trying to heal themselves from the things they often do not discuss. Always choose to be KIND. Always choose GRACE.



REMAIN TRUTHFUL & CONSISTENT IN YOUR WALK OF LIFE, THAT’S SEXY, BEAUTIFUL & BOLD. (Not my words).

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Tru2Day878

Read it twice.

Most people want to talk because they have to say something.
I appreciate those who want to talk because they want to say something.

(This music video got nothing to do with the post above. I shared because i am liking it since 27/08/2021. Ssssshhhhhhhh.)😀

True me.. Tap-772..

Avoid people who mess with your head.
Avoid people who intentionally and repeatedly do and say things that they know upset you.
Avoid people who expect you to prioritize them but refuse to prioritize you.
Avoid people who can’t and won’t apologize sincerely.
Avoid inconsistent approach & disrespect.

It’s during the toughest times of your life that you’ll get to see the true colors of the people who say they care about you.
Notice who sticks around and who doesn’t,
and be grateful to those who leave you,
for they have given you the room to grow in the space they abandoned,
and the awareness to appreciate the people who loved you when you didn’t feel lovable.

Bottom line:
Be OK with giving the gift of your absence to those who do not appreciate and respect your presence.

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