True me.. Tap-818..

You have to chase the things that ignite you.
You have to do the things that bring you joy.
You have to surround yourself with the people who bring you back home to yourself, with the people who respect you and embrace you in ways that make you feel like you are worthy and accepted and celebrated and loved.
You have do the work to heal yourself,
even when it hurts especially when it hurts,
so that you do not continue to approach your life within the boundary of what is heavy within you.
You have to put yourself out there,
and you cannot worry about what other people think,
you cannot rob yourself of experience or happiness or inspiration because you are scared of how you will be perceived.
You have to be unapologetic in the way that you exist here.
You have to believe that your ideas, and your hope, and your being, deserve to take up space.
You have to believe that you have purpose.

Because our existence is finite.
And as hard as that is to understand,
as hard as that can be to connect with,
from time to time remind yourself that in the most human way we are all living on borrowed time.
We live as if we are promised the experiences and the potential we are chasing,
we live as if we have control over what happens to us.
But we don’t, and that is liberating,
because it is pressing there is urgency within the lesson.
It is meant to wake you up.
Life is meant to be lived. (Not my words).

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True me.. Tap-814..

Mama once said;
“We don’t just entertain friends/relationships outta fun, we build them over time, we respect them & we keep them. That’s why never accept or serve discounted garbage”.

I was in my teen days.
I was still getting pocket money from parents.
I wasn’t able to understand those heavy/right words.
I thought my mum was talking about not buying discounted clothes/stuffs or wasting money with friends during weekend trips.
Most of my friends know i hate discounted clothes now too.
In fact, i don’t have a single piece of clothing from any fast fashion brands.

Coming closer to my 30, now i am understanding that she told me not to hangout with people who have discounted/cheap personality/approach/attitude/mindset, It took me almost 14 years to figure out the real meaning behind those wise words.
Being a MAN means progression of understanding, knowledge, acceptance & virtue while developing better habits.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Watch it to understand how your shopping habits are shaping a climate & humanitarian disaster. There’s a reason I never buy clothes from H&M, Zara, TK Maxx or any store/brand with 50% discount board. I buy clothes which cost at least a hundred quid or more, and i wear them for ages. They stay with me because, I know I have spent enough money to buy them. And i fully remember how much I paid, I have a photographic memory. Fun part is, I still have t-shirts, jackets, hoodies & sneakers from my 8th grade & engineering college days which fit perfectly even today. FYI, I am a sneakerhead & my love for watches is something divine.)

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True me.. Tap-661..

BAD NEWS IS:
You cannot make people
like,
love,
understand,
validate,
accept,
respect,
respond,
appreciate you
or
be nice to you.
You can’t control others.

GOOD NEWS IS:
Who gives a shit, it doesn’t matter.

(This video got nothing to do with the post above. Shared it to show my genuine hate towards Instagram & every other app/service Facebook owns.)

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True me.. Tap-489..

If you read my previous post on “Dumb” & commented something that I didn’t approve, it’s because I have two lines to add below it. Saying it here.

There are two kinds of “Dumb people”; one who’s wrong but struggles to accept it, next one who’s wrong and proud of it. The good part is; both are hell lot of fun. Whenever you think a dumb person is talking crap, just enjoy that beautiful conversation coming from another peanut brain. We all need some dose of nonsensical laughter once in a while, such people are always a help when you are going through a horrible day. And I always say this in my posts “Life is fun, let it be”.

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY Sugartits..

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU. You bring tons of goodness to my life. “YOU ARE A TRUTHFUL PERSON, THAT’S THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING ABOUT YOU“.

Have an amazing year ahead till I wish you again. Looking forward to spoil you soon little better then i am used to.

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True me.. Tap-177..

This is a world filled with negative ass mindset people. Everyone wants to take something away from someone with pure deceitful ways of cheating & lying.

You can surprise anyone with little act of generosity, your truthful behaviour I mean. Everyone wants it, but no-one expects it. Be a true you. People value such more over rest.

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True me.. Tap-175..

I have seen such friends turned frenemies who liked me while I was hustling, when I reached somewhere close to my goals they started hating me.

I accept your like to my heart & hate to my ass.

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