I have been through my share of mess & hardships in life. My situations, understanding, thought process & actions to deal with it were different. What worked for me, may not work for you.
Never take someone else’s success story seriously. You will somehow fuck it at the end, nobody learns anything without getting their butt kicked. We humans are equally assholic in various ways. It took me time, one big take away from all “GIVE YOURSELF A REALITY CHECK TIME TO TIME & BE TRUE ABOUT IT IRRESPECTIVE OF THE OUTCOME”.